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Half sister wants to meet us - what do I do? August 1, 6: Now my half-sister is looking to meet our family My parents have been married almost 30 years and I am the eldest of their four adult late teens, early to mid twenties children.
A few months ago, my dad called the family together and told us that he had another daughter, from a relationship that he had before he met my mother. The other daughter has been married but I understand is now separated and has two children of her own - she has known that Dad is her father since her late teens.
The news that he had kept this from my mother absolutely threw a bomb into the middle of our complex, but tight knit family circle.
Dad thought that until the other daughter contacted him, there was no reason to tell any of us about it, and thought it would only cause problems, so he stayed silent. She contacted him for the first time just before Christmas; he told us in mid-March.
Before he told us, they did DNA tests - it is clear that she is his child.
As a follow-up to Tuesday’s post about the majority-minority public schools in Oslo, the following brief account reports the latest statistics on the cultural enrichment of schools in Austria. Vienna is the most fully enriched location, and seems to be in roughly the same situation as Oslo. Many thanks to Hermes for the translation from heartoftexashop.com MY daughter wanted to go as a princess to book week. My daughter’s teacher asked my sister “if she is the trainer of the dog, because she doesn’t look sick” in front of all the children. I think that the sentence My mother won't put up with my sister or me swearing is correct, because: there's with in the sentence that is a preposition that doesn't support the personal pronoun I. My sister and me are the object of the sentence.
Since March, my parents have been to counselling because we all told them they had to, to save their marriage. None of us have met the other sister yet. To add insult to injury or, really, the other way around Mom has recently had major surgery and has had trouble recovering physically because of all the emotional stress.
My three siblings have all said that they have no interest in meeting the other sister in the immediate future, especially while Mom is having such a hard time - she has to come first. I told my dad the same thing, but that I did want to meet the other sister some time. He now seems to be keen for me to act on this soon he was pushing for August, I left myself uncommitted to any kind of schedule.
Stories of this happening to you or someone you know, whether it was dealt with well or badly and how that worked out would be great, and any specific advice for handling the situation if you have been through it yourself. I say this as someone from an incredibly complicated family One mom, four kids, 3 or 4 dads, but all "raised" by one dad who constantly reminded us which one of us he really thinks is his.
But some situations call for new ways of communicating. This is one of those situations where a therapist can help you learn some new tools. Meeting her is not going to validate any of his incredibly shitty behavior. Meeting her is not going to mean you approve of his secrets, or are disloyal to your mom, or your siblings.
I would meet her. I would meet her on your schedule, with no involvement from your father. Next time he pushes, ask for her contact information, then tell him you are not comfortable talking to him about this at all, and could he please not mention it again. The secrets were the harmful part, the lying, the reveal.
Meeting her is probably going to be underwhelming, comparatively. Take your time, take steps if and when YOU feel ready, otherwise you might jeopardise any good that could come of it.
Or am I reading your question wrong?
Nth that you should take her contact info and then tell him to butt out. Those are perfectly fair and healthy priorities. That is a discussion you can always have later, if you must. What he suggests, from his own experience and talking with others with a similar experience, is to write a LETTER -- not an e-mail, a letter -- and send it snail mail to start contact.
Gives you a lot more time to process and prepare.My shame was somewhat mitigated when I saw a kid wearing a random t-shirt and jeans with a pair of swim goggles around his neck (Michael Phelps) and another girl with a piece of paper taped to her shirt with her character’s name written in marker.
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No note, no warning, nothing. Just gone. I can’t believe you left. After all, we’ve been together ever since I can remember. last year in January, i came to know that my sister is going out with someone, i met that guy, that guy was not a good guy at all, i warned my sister my sister stopped talking to me and she.
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